10 TRICKS TALK TO THE TODDLERS


Invited to talk does not turn, not a sign that the little one does not know manners. At the age of a toddler, attention is easily distracted and the child does not understand the rules of speaking with others who are right. You need to talk while talking.


  1. Ask to stare. Every child seems not to hear your words, repeat. If you still don't seem to hear, immediately ask him to see you. "Sister, see Mother. Mother is talking to a sister, you know! "Say it in a subtle tone so that your little one can't be intimidated. Asking this view to be one way of learning children, talking to other people must be by looking at the other person.
  2. The position of the body is parallel. Position your body parallel to the child's body with not too far away. A position like this helps your child focus on you. He can allow the message you give and dialogue with you. When your baby still doesn't look or look at you, his shoulders turn into a form asking for his attention. If the distance between you and your little one is far away, you will have difficulty touching it, even he can think of you as an important interlocutor, as well as the message you convey.
  3. Eye contact. You often listen to "four-eye talk" that speaks of those who need strong eye contact. Eye contact is very necessary for your compilation of talking to children. Eye contact indicates that you are serious about asking him to speak. Your little one also thinks it's important to you. Not only reprimanding sentences or requests that require eye contact with children, but simple dialogue also requires eye contact.
  4. Play the role of talking with other people. It is possible that the child does not understand how to treat his interlocutor. He understands what you are talking about, he also wants to do what you ask. Teach how to talk to other people by asking them to play roles. Use dolls belonging to the child. Give roles to each doll. Position the face of the doll face to face who is talking so that the little one knows that is a good attitude to talk to other people.
  5. Look for children's attention. Your child's support for understanding and concentration levels is not perfect. You are always looking for children's attention. One time not talking, twice and three times still not looking at you, immediately seek attention, for example by approaching and then handed him an item that makes the child interested in talking to you. Even so, be careful, don't let the item actually instead turn your attention. If this happens, immediately stay away from the item.
  6. Give an explanation. "Sister, see Mother if you are invited to talk!" You often talk about this sentence with your little one not paying attention to you. Successful? Not always! He is tired of thinking you should see your compilation of talking with you. He did not know why he had to leave. You need to give an explanation for you. Complete the phrase "Look, Mother," with "Look, Mother, because you have to see this toy that you have to fix."
  7. Know the ability to understand children. Every child has different understanding abilities. Some people already understand if you ask "What reason makes you do that?" However, there are also those who can only understand when you ask "Sister, Mother wants to ask, you asked why the glasses were?" compilation is invited to talk, it could be because he does not understand who you are talking to and you talk about what. Use short sentences, and simple because the ability to concentrate children aged 2-3 years is still not fully developed.
  8. Select the moment. Waiting for the right moment to talk with other people, including your little one, is the right way. Adults will not be bothered if they are preoccupied with their activities, as are children. If you can wait for him to be busy, why not wait? If the child is finished with the activity, it's easy for you to invite him to speak face to face. To find out, start learning first as a form of interruption. How to make children have preparation to stop their activities.
  9. Ask for help. Believe in one of the 6 magic letters, "HELP"? Try, say "Please ..." the compilation speaks to the child before expressing the command sentence. Your little one cannot undoubtedly decide and be governed so you don't want to repeat, don't want to see, as a form or a way to pretend not to hear your words. This method while talking about children how to respond politely.
  10. Give an example. Teaching how to listen and look at the speaker needs a concrete example. If the child feels heard and looked at while talking, he will absorb and imitate how to be a good listener or respond to the speaker source.